Unlike men who start dating a woman for the sake of meeting themselves, women, for the most part, get to know a man in the hope of creating a strong and friendly family. And the task of a man in love is to give a woman hope that your intentions are serious, that she was looking for you all this time.
Start talking about your feelings. Of course, this can be a serious test for you, since it is not customary for men to openly express their emotions, but women love with their ears, and for them the words of declaration of love are of paramount importance. Just do not talk about love if you yourself are not sure of it, you do not need to give a woman false hope, since you can hurt her if the hope is not justified. In this case, try to start with compliments, with assurances that she is the most extraordinary, most desirable and attractive. When you are convinced of this for yourself, start talking about love.
Discuss future plans together. Nothing is so convincing about the seriousness of intentions as building joint plans. Start by planning an upcoming vacation or a trip to visit friends, and then smoothly move on to discussing sharing and the number of children you want.
But do not dwell only on words, do not forget about actions. Try to spend as much time with your beloved one as possible: call her more often, chat on Skype, invite her on a date. Offer to meet her after school or work so that she does not go alone, this will let her know that you are worried about her.
Give her bouquets of flowers and small gifts for no reason. This will not only show your romanticism and desire to please your partner, but also give the woman hope that you intend to do so in the future.
Try to take an interest in her desires and mood. Do not insist on going to the movies or a restaurant if she is very tired, even if you have already bought tickets, do not ask a woman to be close if she is not feeling well. You will see that she will rest and reward you for these sacrifices.
Get to know her friends and parents and try to make as good an impression on them as possible. She will be confident in the seriousness of your intentions if you try to become a part of her environment. Do not forget to introduce her to your family and friends, help her integrate into your life, she will definitely appreciate it.
Do not look at other women in her presence, do not discuss your previous girlfriends with her. If she herself has started a conversation about your past relationship, you should not throw mud at your ex-girlfriends or talk about their merits. Just convince her that she is the best. You should not try to make her feel jealous, this is a very dangerous move, it most likely will not give a woman confidence in the seriousness of your intentions.
