Harmony does not always reign between loving people. There are misunderstandings and quarrels. In the most severe cases, it comes to rupture. Very often the guy then racks his head over the question: how to get his girlfriend back? How to restore old relationships?
Instructions
Step 1
Paradoxically, start by asking: Do you really want the girl back? What motivates you - sincere regret about the breakup that happened, love for your girlfriend? Or wounded pride: "I, so smart, strong, interesting, and suddenly fell out of love!" In the second case, it is better not to make an attempt at reconciliation - nothing good will come of it.
Step 2
As accurately as possible, objectively and impartially assess both your own behavior and that of the girl. After all, because of something, you broke up. Having established the cause of the quarrel, draw all the necessary conclusions from it so as not to make the same mistakes in the future.
Step 3
Before attempting to return your beloved, it is better to wait a while - simply, for the girl to “cool down”, so that emotions subside. Moreover, if the breakup happened on your initiative: then the girl feels the offense especially acutely.
Step 4
Trying to make peace with the girl, in no case do not impose your society on her, do not follow her heels, do not press on pity, they say, "I feel so bad without you!" This will most likely lead to the exact opposite result. Remember: women very rarely love those men whom they feel sorry for.
Step 5
Instead, try to get her attention again, to become her irreplaceable person. Be patient, gentle, and discreet. Call from time to time, send SMS messages, congratulate you on the holidays. Offer help when needed. In general, follow the saying: "a drop of water wears away a stone." Do not rush with the proposal: "Let's start all over again!". Let her "mature" herself to this thought.
Step 6
If there is much of your fault in the breakup, you should honestly admit it and apologize. If the "main role" was played by a girl, you should show generosity and not even mention it. She will surely appreciate such delicacy.
Step 7
Well, if the old relationship has been restored, cherish each other, do not expose love to unnecessary risk. One wise man said very well: "Even a genius can make a mistake, but only a fool persists in his delusions and does not learn from mistakes."
