Sometimes a love affair becomes a burden and begins to bring only disappointment. In this case, you need to seriously analyze the situation. There are direct signs that it doesn't make sense to pursue a relationship.
Violence
Physical abuse is an unconditional reason for breaking up a relationship and a serious reason to punish the offender according to the law.
But besides the physical, there is also psychological violence. If your partner does not take you seriously, belittles and ridicules all your plans and achievements, think about whether to continue such a "toxic" relationship.
Pathological jealousy also belongs to psychological abuse. Total control, checking your calls and messages, constant suspicions of treason, reproaches and scandals can destroy even a very strong family.
Playing in silence, ignoring a partner, boycotts and leaving home are also types of psychological violence. This is how tyrants and manipulators behave, who are trying to emotionally suppress a person and make him their puppet.
If you have to constantly make compromises and compromise on your principles, it is worth considering breaking up. Life is too short to spend in a "psychological prison". A relationship built on fear and mistrust is doomed to failure.
Boredom and annoyance
What previously seemed funny and sweet in a loved one began to anger and cause negative emotions. These can be both appearance features and certain character traits. The former charm of a partner disappears, and his actions and simple everyday habits cause irritation.
The flip side of the "coin" is mutual indifference and boredom. Relationships end quickly without mutual hobbies, shared hobbies, or interest in each other. Partners try to spend as little time as possible together. Some may just live at work, masking a bad union with workaholism, others - to spend all their free time with friends.
If you are not interested in the thoughts, dreams and plans of your "second half", and spend your evenings separately, you should seriously think about the advisability of such a relationship.
Misunderstanding
In good relationships, people talk and try to resolve conflicts and misunderstandings through constructive dialogue. If all conversations end in a quarrel and mutual reproaches, this is an alarming signal.
Take a closer look at your partner. If your points of view are fundamentally different, and life principles and priorities do not coincide, it makes sense to end the relationship. Do not comfort yourself with the thought that the "other half" will change. It is very rare for adults to radically change their principles and behavior.
Contempt
Over time, falling in love gradually develops into calm affection and tenderness, but partners still experience warm feelings from communicating with each other.
In unhealthy relationships, joy is present only initially, but quickly passes. Offensive jokes, neglect and disrespect "clip wings" and instead of joy you experience anxiety and irritation in the company with your partner.
Constant negativity and tension in a relationship is one of the sure signs of the collapse of a love union.
