Love is beautiful when feelings are mutual. Otherwise, it turns into torment for both one and the second partner. Sometimes attraction to another person becomes pathological. Then you need to turn him away from the object of adoration by any means, direct emotions to something else.
Instructions
Step 1
If the person has not yet lost the ability to think soberly, try to bring him into a frank conversation. Arrange a meeting at a cafe or restaurant. The presence of strangers will force the lover to keep himself in control, not to show emotions too clearly. Try to calmly explain to the unsuccessful candidate for partners why you cannot respond to his feelings. Tell us about your own feelings. Make it clear that apart from friendships, nothing can bind you. Never flirt or flirt with your opponent. Otherwise, he will not take your request seriously. Imagine that you are at a work meeting. Speak dryly, express your thoughts clearly.
Step 2
Don't get into a scandal with an unlucky partner candidate. Strong, even negative, emotions will lead to an exacerbation of all feelings. Speak calmly, constantly emphasizing that you are not a couple and that love in return will never arise. Ask family and friends to help you. If the words about the impossibility of a relationship will sound not only from your lips, but also from everyone around you, this will help the lover to understand that there really will be no connection.
Step 3
Change the behavior. If you used to love spending your evenings at home with a book, become an avid party girl. If you could not live without clubs - give preference to relaxing outdoor activities and visiting museums. Change your hair color and clothing style. Do everything to get as far away from the ideal of the pathologically in love as possible.
Step 4
If you failed to convince a person of the absence of mutual feelings, disappear from his life. Only a complete break in relations, at least for six months or a year, can heal pathological love. Don't answer phone calls and SMS messages. Stop going to places you both know. Ask mutual friends to mention that you have moved at an opportunity. If the lover knows where you live, you will really have to change your place of residence for a while. Move in with your parents, a friend, or go on a long vacation.
