Sometimes parents themselves cannot cope with their child. But a child's uncontrollability can be caused by several reasons. Some tips will help you understand these reasons and understand how to deal with a small hurricane.
Hyperactivity syndrome
The child almost continuously "stands on his head", moves aimlessly all the time, asks questions, but does not listen to the answer, interrupts. Maybe he would like to restrain himself, but he cannot.
In this case, it is imperative to realize that the child is not just “behaving badly” or “doing out of spite”. He may be sick. Contact your doctor for advice on the intricacies of raising (treating) such a child. For your part, observe the daily routine, and be more often with your child in the fresh air. Talk to your son or daughter in a measured manner and without irritation, do not allow overexcitement.
Connivance of parents
Adults preach complete freedom in upbringing, but in reality this often turns into the fact that the child knows no boundaries. And, faced with a ban, he can throw a tantrum or simply ignore it. Parents try not to notice such behavior as long as possible, but acquaintances, relatives, educators and teachers persistently tell them about it.
It's time to change your position and understand that the task of parents is to teach the child the rules of behavior in society. After all, the freedom of one should not interfere with the life of other people. Don't be afraid to be reasonably demanding, discipline will help your son or daughter develop restraint and self-control.
Willfulness
The child is healthy and knows very well the rules in theory, but often does not want to follow them in practice. Out of the blue, he can make a scene at the store or at a party.
At this moment, you need to quickly switch the child from pampering to mental activity: distract him with an interesting topic of conversation or ask an unexpected question. A playful over five years old can be put on a chair to think about behavior (you do not need to put it in a corner or lock it in a room). Later, talk to the child about the situation and remind him of the rules. The reward system will help. For example, if your son or daughter behaved well, you attach a smiling smiley magnet to the fridge, if not, you attach a sad smiley. Five funny faces - the child receives a prize or a gift.
