The search for the ideal, the ideal partner, is characteristic of young people. But look around, look at older couples. Of course, neither the husband nor the wife is often perfect in them, but they are together and they are happy. Many of those who continue to seek their ideal remain lonely and embittered all their lives over such injustice.
Instructions
Step 1
First of all, realize that there are no perfect people, no matter how trite it may sound. If you are looking for the ideal, then you probably consider yourself to be the ideal person. But, in all honesty, are you yourself without flaws? And you yourself know that you also have periods when you are in a bad mood, sick or do not look your best. Then let other people have the same problems.
Step 2
Do not make yourself a detailed list of all the qualities that your partner should have, and even more so, do not tie your search for the ideal to only one specific type of people. Thus, you yourself significantly limit the choice and automatically weed out people who, for sure, have many of the virtues you value. You just don't give people the opportunity to reveal them for you.
Step 3
External data, of course, mean a lot at first glance, but history knows many examples when people were called ideal only for their moral qualities and principles. Think, perhaps, it is worthwhile to limit the concept of an ideal partner to several non-material criteria, such as honesty, kindness, decency, intelligence, ambition and a sense of humor. This set is quite enough to develop all other qualities, for example, in a man.
Step 4
Remember that you must be ready to meet your ideal at any time. Therefore, pay attention, maybe he is standing next to you when you have a row with the minibus driver or passes by when you are drinking beer on a bench in unpeeled shoes. Always keep in order not only your body, but also your thoughts. The more you yourself correspond to the ideal you have chosen, the more likely it is that he, too, will pay attention to you.
