If mutual sympathy arises between a man and a woman, and then a romantic relationship, then sooner or later they will pass into the stage of sexual relations. It often happens that this happens even too early, when a mutual interest has not yet formed, based not only on physical attraction. Such relationships are rarely long-term.
How men and women relate to sex
A woman seeking to keep a man through sex should be aware that he perceives their relationship in a completely different way from her. Most men easily go for intimacy, since for them the feeling of their sexual solvency contributes to an increase in self-esteem.
Knowing this, some girls mistakenly believe that sex can easily lure the object of their sympathy into their networks. They do not understand that if a man is ready to take advantage of what goes into his own hands, this does not mean that he will immediately fall in love with his partner. After he manages to satisfy his sexual hunger, he may immediately lose interest in her, since apart from the bed they have absolutely nothing to bind them.
Few men equate love and sex. Often, an outwardly attractive woman makes them sexually attracted, but at the same time they do not at all set themselves the goal of building a serious relationship with her. In turn, the majority of women who decide to have sexual contact see a man as a potential life partner and, possibly, the father of their future children.
Can a casual relationship turn into a serious romance
It often happens that a girl, without realizing it herself, creates for a man the impression of an easy prey. With her coquetry, teasing looks, too relaxed demeanor, she demonstrates to him a readiness for a close relationship. However, if at the same time she tries to let the man understand that she is ready to connect her fate with him, then he can perceive this only as an invitation to non-binding sex.
Interestingly, when choosing a permanent girlfriend or life partner, sexual sophistication is not a decisive factor for a man. Moreover, accessibility is far more repelling than inexperience. The point is that such behavior can be perceived as a threat. A man may think that if a woman so easily agreed to have sex with him, then it is quite possible that she will not deny it to others.
So if a girl goes to rapprochement with an unfamiliar person, she should not rely on the fact that their first night will mark the beginning of a serious relationship. Most likely, she will only get sex for one or more nights. Of course, it also happens that a casual relationship develops into a long romance. But such cases are quite rare, and relationships that have arisen only on the basis of sex will continue to exist solely because of it.
Full-fledged relationships are built on the basis of long-term communication, the presence of common interests and spiritual kinship. Only in this case will sex become their harmonious complement.
