Treason is synonymous with betrayal, perhaps the most pernicious of all its variations. And it will be too late to change anything when she has established herself as the actual reality of your life. It is much wiser to try in advance to create the most comfortable conditions for the existence of reliable relations, built primarily on reciprocity in all its manifestations.
Instructions
Step 1
Place your bet on yourself. As you know, even the strongest feelings wither under the pressure of a monotonous, unimportant routine. Do not let them discolor, rolling down to a level constrained by everyday life. Of course, this does not always seem to be practically possible and logically correct. But, nevertheless, do not be lazy at the slightest hint of a chance to give your faithful a feeling of a holiday. Sculpt it from what is, from scratch, and do not be afraid of experiments. Do not be afraid of yourself, new and changeable. No matter how ridiculous it may sound, but, in fact, your task is not to let the man get bored. Otherwise, he will always find something to have fun out of the context of the family hearth.
Step 2
Accept the fact that no matter how you (individually or collectively) try to maintain that uncontrollable attraction to each other that once reunited you, nothing will come of it. Time passes, emotions towards each other are dulled. You cease to experience that violent gravitation going on at the chemical level. This is the norm, and you should not collapse in bouts of baseless denial - it will only knock you out of the rut. Instead, direct your efforts in the most correct direction, on the intimate side of your union. Do not neglect affection, even if you are secretive and shy by nature. No man wants to go to bed with an emotionless Puritan woman with a frozen tragedy on her petrified face, fully dressed in a cotton shirt "on the floor" and reclining in a respectable posture that does not express even a hint of the Fall. However, this may well be captivating in the context of role-playing, for example. However, there are innumerable variations, it is enough just once to give free rein to fantasy, and then you will be sucked in and carried by the incomprehensibly diverse whirlwind of vanities and destinies involved in them. This is akin to an intimate theater of two actors with the richest roles.
Step 3
Love yourself first of all! Don't neglect your look and style. Always and everywhere you should appear fully armed. It is necessary to continue to remain desirable not only for your beloved, but for all men together and each separately. Your husband should constantly make sure how lucky he is that your choice fell on him. He should read this information from the admiring and lustful glances of outsiders "males" who cannot help but turn to look at you. On the one hand, he will be very proud of the fact of possessing a "tidbit", on the other, he will have reason to worry that one of these men may well be the next fateful stage for you, threatening him with dismissal.
Step 4
If the speech cannot be conducted about the established mutual understanding, resort to tricks. Make it appear that the man delights you in every act he does. They are very impressionable and susceptible to flattery, use it for good. Let him feel like the head of the pride and, however much he likes, boast of his pseudo-authority over the rest of the females. Your job is to hum meekly, but to follow the chosen tactics.
