There are a number of women's habits that automatically turn them into bad mistresses in the eyes of men.
Don't turn your bedroom into an office
Try not to bring a laptop or a pile of office papers to bed. This will alienate the man. Who likes that a woman thinks all the time only about work and not about pleasure? The bedroom should be a place to relax, sleep, or have sex. The only foreign objects that may be there are sex toys, as well as erotic magazines or books about sex.
Do not give up oral sex
If you love a man, you love him in everything, any part of his body. Do not deny a categorical tone when it comes to oral sex. At the very least, this is insulting to a person. If you are not ready - this is one thing, but you should not give up this type of sex just out of principle.
Don't be too clean
Spend at least five minutes in bed after having sex with your loved one. You shouldn't immediately run to the bathroom, it looks suspicious. Better hug, kiss each other, tell me how good and healthy you were. But please do not start talking about the future - this is very annoying, and our goal is to make the man relax in bed.
Try to look good even at home
Of course, you do not need to walk around in erotic lingerie all the time, but stretched sweatpants with saggy knees are not the best choice. There are three requirements for home clothes: it should emphasize your dignity, be neat and easy to take off. Try not to wear old clothes, it is better to buy special clothes for the house. It can be found in any major clothing store.
Don't talk about your ex
Never, under any circumstances, talk about your ex. About your own or about him - it doesn't matter. Just accept that this topic is taboo. It is especially terrifying to discuss who is better at sex: her or you. A man might not think about comparing you, but suddenly he will compare, and it turns out that she is still the best? Of course, he will not admit it, but you will think about it anyway. Do you need it?
Don't waste too much time preparing
There is a chance, while you bring yourself into perfect shape, your man will "burn out" and, what good, will do other things altogether.
Don't overdo yourself
If a man wants sex, but for some reason you don't, you shouldn't force yourself. Better say that you have a headache, stomach ache, etc. or that you just don't want today, but promise to surprise him tomorrow. It is important to fulfill the promise, it will only play a plus for you.
Take the initiative sometimes
Sometimes a man wants to completely surrender himself to the power of his beloved woman. Use this. Of course, it is not always worth initiating sex, after all, a man must lead, but sometimes such an experience only warms up the relationship.