Most quarrels between husband and wife, as a rule, occur in the evening, when both spouses, tired after a working day, dream of peace, care and attention. But the keeper of the hearth is a woman, and it is her wisdom and endurance that should help her meet her husband from work so as not to provoke a family conflict.
They say that the main thing for a man is to have a strong rear. This means that no matter what difficulties and problems the representative of the stronger sex faces during the working day, going home, he must be sure that a loving and caring wife will open the door for him. He will be understood, listened to and allowed to rest and gain strength before the next difficult day. Whatever happens to him, and wherever he works, it will always be. Only then will he want to go only home after work, to where he is loved and expected.
A tired and hungry person first of all wants to relax and have dinner. Entering the house and seeing a laid table and a smiling wife, no man will be capable of a displeased look or a harsh word, no matter how tired he is. Naturally, it is beyond the power of a working woman to cook his favorite delicacies every day, and a housewife who is busy with children cannot spend most of her time at the stove. The culinary delights are best left for the holidays and weekends, and regular food should be just fresh and tasty. It will not be difficult to spend a couple of extra minutes for a beautiful table setting, it will cheer up both of them.
Never scold your husband for being late for dinner - most likely he had reasons for this.
The washed old robe, even if it is very cozy and beloved, is time to be sent to a landfill or put into common rags. Access to a man's heart lies not only through the stomach, and an untidy-looking life partner is unlikely to cause a desire to gently hug her when meeting. A home terry dressing gown is best used for late evening or early morning minutes, and for everyday wear it is better to have a nice trouser suit made of soft fabric or a nice tunic. Taking two minutes to touch up your makeup before your husband arrives from work will add confidence in your charm and approval in his eyes.
All noisy household appliances - a vacuum cleaner, a mixer, a washing machine, it is better to have time to use it before your spouse arrives in order to give him a rest.
After dinner, a calm conversation over a cup of tea will bring peace. A well-fed and rested husband will react much more calmly to those unresolved problems that he may have to hear about. Do not start a conversation with claims about minor repairs not done or unfulfilled promises. Better to casually mention the long-running tap and complain about how it gets on your nerves. A tactful reminder without reproach will quickly reach the goal and maintain peace and tranquility in the family.
No matter how much the children love their father, they should be accustomed from an early age to the idea that dad needs a rest after he has come home from work. Their family responsibilities should include a rule, together with their mother, to tidy up the house before their father arrives, put toys in place and help set the table for family dinner.
When the spouse rests and comes to his senses, he himself will want to play with the children and put them to bed, help his wife wash the dishes after dinner, and then both will have time and energy for a romantic evening full of tenderness.
