It is very important to choose the right wife for yourself, because your life partner should be ideal for you. The most important thing is to only pay attention to the qualities that you think are important. Do not listen to the advice of friends, because you live with her and only you know what you want to see in your betrothed.
Please note the following:
Appearance. Your chosen one should be pleasant to you. And one should not be guided by reference models of beauty. The standard is different for each of us. Choose with your heart.
Age. It is considered the most optimal when your choice fell on a woman 2-3 years younger than you. A big plus will be her experience of living together, which will allow in the future to avoid many problems arising from everyday life. Marriage is highly undesirable if your girlfriend is not yet twenty years old. Such marriages are usually short-lived.
The environment of the future wife. Some men do not pay due attention to this question. But in vain. Get to know her family, pay special attention to how her mother behaves in certain situations. This is practically a mirror image of how your bride will behave in similar situations. There may be slight deviations, but the older a woman becomes, the more she behaves like a mother.
Learn about your beloved as much as possible before the wedding. Moreover, this knowledge should relate to any topic: her attitude to people, things, household. The more diverse the information you collect, the fewer unpleasant surprises await you in the future. The easiest way to get information is to listen and hear the chosen one. Pay attention to how she talks about her friends and acquaintances. If all the assessments are purely negative, this should alert you. It is very likely that you will be assessed in the same way in the status of a husband.
It is not recommended to enter into marriage with women who:
They do not understand the word "economy". If your chosen one is ready to talk for hours about new outfits, cars, etc., and at the first opportunity seeks to get herself a tenth pair of shoes, this is a wake-up call. Most often, children of wealthy parents who are accustomed to living in luxury and could afford any purchase are inclined to waste money, not counting them. Having entered an independent life, they initially cannot learn to live within their means. Most often, such a person is an inveterate egoist in his soul.
Painfully jealous. This trait is inherent to one degree or another in almost all people. But if it is hypertrophied and leads to regular conflicts from scratch, the likelihood that your union will be strong and lasting is close to zero.
Abuse alcohol, tobacco or are prone to drug use. A woman is the future mother of your children, and what kind of children can be born to an alcoholic or drug addict?
The lists can go on and on. But if you pay attention to every negative, you will remain a bachelor. There are no perfect people. Therefore, if you really like a person, then you can close your eyes to the shortcomings.
