During the transition period, the boy's body undergoes various changes. Parents need to give their child the information they need on time.
Instructions
Step 1
On issues of puberty, it will be easier for a boy to talk with his father, since such conversations are more convenient to have with a person of the same sex. The child feels calmer and can ask questions that interest him without hesitation, since he will be sure that the father will be able to understand him.
Step 2
All boys develop at their own individual pace, reaching maturity in their own way quickly. Parents don't need to worry if their child is carried away by video games and other hobbies for too long, instead of the opposite sex.
Step 3
Explain to your child what wet dreams are, when they occur, and what is causing them. The child must know in advance the information about this, so as not to be frightened, but to perceive this process as a normal phenomenon, and not a known disease.
Step 4
Now is the time to have a serious talk with my son about sex life. Even if you are sure that the teenager is already in the know, the information he possesses may be inaccurate, fragmentary, and sometimes distorted. Therefore, do not be lazy to talk again about sex drive, contraception, sexually transmitted diseases. Tell your teen about a normal boy-girl relationship that simply having sex is not as enjoyable as being intimate with a loved one who truly likes it. Teach a teenager to show respect for girls, a guy should calmly accept a refusal, not put pressure on his soul mate, respect her opinion, decisions. Explain to the teenager that he should never use force against girls, this is fraught with bad consequences, as well as moral trauma for teenagers.
Step 5
Share how you can learn to control your body to avoid uncomfortable moments such as uncontrollable erections. It happens that at the most inopportune moment the boy's body can let him down and put his excitement on public display. Talk to your son about possible ways to quickly calm a heated mind and fantasies. Teach your child not to lose self-confidence in any situation and come out of various situations with humor.
Step 6
Parents will not be able to control the teenager's personal life, let him know that in any situation, he can safely come to you for help and support.
