Some girls, due to their charisma, attract others more than others. If you want to be cool for everyone, think about the secret of these attractive women.
Instructions
Step 1
Live in harmony with yourself. Find harmony between body and soul. Inner confidence and calm acceptance of oneself attract others. Begin to love and respect yourself, and others will appreciate you. Let your adequate self-esteem manifest in your outer image. Learn to present yourself.
Step 2
Develop your abilities. A girl who is passionate about her hobby, who knows how to do something well, who has some kind of talent, attracts the attention of others. Think about what you would like to do, what you have a predisposition for. It might be worth enrolling in a dance school, acting studio, or art school. Do not be afraid to try something new, suddenly you will be addicted.
Step 3
Make sure your posture is straight and your gait feminine. Pay attention to your gestures. Sometimes they say more words about you to others. Keep your movements smooth and graceful without fussing. Dress in such a way that the things you wear reflect your inner world. You should not blindly chase fashion or imitate someone. Find your own style - flamboyant but not too sexy, cute, and enticing. Then you will be able to charm those around you.
Step 4
Control your facial expression. Relaxed muscles and a light half-smile will help you create the image of a pleasant, open-minded girl. It is these persons that people like. Believe me, people around you read more in your eyes than you think. A dull look and drooping eyelashes will give you a sad, disappointed or insecure person.
Step 5
Make communication with you pleasant and comfortable. Compliment people. Moreover, the reason for the praise must be truthful and original. The banal remark that someone looks great will not surprise anyone and will not win over. Get rid of the habit of complaining and criticizing everyone around you. Be cheerful and welcoming. Do not gossip about others, do not gossip about people. It is the girls who give others a positive attitude that they consider cool.
Step 6
Try to be a versatile, erudite girl. Being able to support a wide variety of topics will help you win the sympathy of those around you. In addition to being broad-minded, you need the ability to conduct a conversation. Learn to connect with people and be interesting to tell. Show in addition to everything a sense of humor, and become the life of the party.
Step 7
To be really cool, you need to prove yourself as a good friend. Be considerate of others. Learn to listen and understand the person. Sometimes you need to show empathy, other times you need to cheer up the individual. If you show the ability to accept people and empathize with them, they will reach out to you even more.
