Maintaining a home and a warm relationship between spouses is not easy. Practical advice will help.
Instructions
Step 1
Do not be completely dependent on each other. Of course, in the family, spouses must make decisions, do common things together, but they must feel comfortable even when the other half is not around. The personal space of each of the spouses, a sufficient amount of freedom, the key to a successful relationship. Trust must be the foundation of married life. There will be no suspicions about the behavior of the spouse, there will be no desire to follow phone calls, check e-mail.
Step 2
Family criticism can be detrimental to relationships. Spouses should find in each other constant support, encouragement, even if one of them has taken the wrong step. All people can be wrong. Meeting criticism and reproaches at home can quickly ruin family relationships. The family is created in order to find support and support in it.
Step 3
For a stable relationship, it is necessary to distribute duties and responsibilities equally. If one family member pulls the lion's share, it will soon become the cause of conflicts and family disputes. Make a list of household chores and distribute among family members, both parents should be involved in raising children, so it is necessary to take time to communicate with children. If the spouses cannot cope with family concerns, you can hire a third assistant, nanny, housekeeper. This is often the best way out of the situation that saves the day.
Step 4
Chat with other families and friends. You should not plunge headlong into your own life and not let other people into your life. The complete isolation of the family from communication with others has a bad effect on the relationship of all family members. Arrange small parties, get-togethers. Invite families with children to visit so they can play with yours. Adults, meanwhile, can share experiences and enjoy mutual interaction.
Step 5
Monitor the quality of your sex life. Do not blame problems or stagnation in your sex life on your significant other. There are problems, calmly discuss, no need for reproaches. When married couples live together for a long time, it is not the quantity of sex that becomes more important, but its quality. If necessary, try to diversify your intimate life, be attentive and gentle with your loved one, this will induce him to show the same qualities to you.
