Family relationships are not always perfect. Sometimes members of one cell of society lack the usual patience, which is why scandals thunder in the house, and communication becomes a burden. In this case, the two must learn to be more tolerant of each other. With a mutual desire, it is quite possible to do this.
Instructions
Step 1
Respect each other. The first and most important rule in a family is respect for each of its members. Do not strive to prove your superiority, because in the end you will still be equal.
Step 2
Restrain your emotions. This will help you avoid a lot of trouble. You just have to keep silent in response to a sharp remark or not bring a small misunderstanding to an argument, and peace and tranquility will reign in your family.
Step 3
Forgive the little flaws that everyone has, and even you are no exception. If it makes you unnerved that your husband or mom is putting a used tea bag on the table, you shouldn't make scandals about it every day. Place beautiful, specially designed miniature saucers on the tables, and everyone will be happy to put the bags on them without fear of your punishment. Any problem can be solved simply and peacefully if you look at it from the outside.
Step 4
Give the kids a little pampering. Sometimes parents lack tolerance for their own children. Try not to control their every step, let them fool around and have fun without negative consequences. After all, for example, the paint from the face and hands can always be washed off, and the child is unlikely to forget the constant screams of parents in childhood. If he does not become embittered, then he may well acquire complexes that will greatly complicate his future life.
Step 5
Do not fence yourself off from the older generation. This is another problem for large families. And you need to cope with it by any means, so as not to reproach yourself later for wrong behavior. Try to visit old people more often, call them a couple of times a week, patiently listen to their advice and teachings.
Step 6
Get rid of negative emotions. In order not to dump them on your family, come up with a convenient way for you to deal with negativity. In this regard, sport works great. Releasing physical grips leads to cleansing of the mind, so don't spare a couple of hours a week swimming, jogging, yoga, or wrestling.
