To find happiness, to find your soul mate, the heart must be opened to love. This feeling is not measured in square meters and horsepower. Love is either there or not. The third option is not given.
Instructions
Step 1
Almost all people dream of finding a loved one, but not everyone can imagine how and by what parameters to look for him. Make a mental list of the qualities that your future partner should have. You should not associate your life with a person who does not suit you in some way. Over time, your discontent will only accumulate, which can cause many quarrels. You will make not only yourself unhappy, but also your partner.
Step 2
If you want to find love, do not look for a person by the number of square meters that he possesses. You should not be bored and uninteresting with him as an interlocutor and partner in all your endeavors. You should have similar hobbies and tastes, because this is the only way you can always count on his support.
Step 3
Don't live in anticipation of getting what you want. You have to think about the present. Do not think that now you have a "black streak" in your life, which will end when you find love in your heart. Try to find a source of joy in other things, then it will be easier for you to find a mate.
Step 4
Try to love yourself first. You will not be able to adequately respond to a person's feelings if you do not do this. Do something pleasant to you, buy something beautiful. Change your attitudes from “must / must do it” to “want to do it”. Try to find something interesting in the activity (such as cleaning) that you do not like. This will help you get things done faster and avoid stress.
Step 5
Enjoy every little thing. The flight of a bright butterfly and the glittering dew in the rays of the morning sun, the smile of a passer-by and a lucky ticket - notice all this, because life is full of positive moments. Give joy to people yourself, it fills the heart with love and light.
Step 6
Be attentive, your happiness may be walking along the sidewalk or sitting at the next table. Do not become isolated in yourself and your problems, otherwise you will not notice the most important thing in life. If you are a man, present flowers to a sad girl sitting on a park bench. A representative of the fair sex can answer with a smile to a guy who does not take his admiring eyes off her.
Step 7
People who are capable of love and open to this feeling attract others who need it and are looking for tenderness.
