After the experienced heart experiences there comes a moment when it seems that no love exists. I would like to close and not let this feeling inside myself, so as not to get burned again. But sometimes you just need to open your heart to love, because it is simply impossible to live without it.
Necessary
- - a computer with Internet access;
- - books and films about love.
Instructions
Step 1
If you think that you do not need love at all, try to analyze these thoughts and feelings. What exactly pushed you to them? Perhaps it was an offense caused by another person, or the fear that you will become addicted to this feeling and lose yourself. Whatever the reason, you need to identify it and consider whether it is powerful enough to never open your heart to the best feeling it can experience.
Step 2
State your thoughts in writing. Divide the piece of paper into two parts, on one half write all the minuses of love, on the other - the pluses. In the minus column, describe all your fears and distrust of this feeling. Include in the pluses all the positive moments that love gives: support and support of your half, the realization that you are not alone in this world, happiness from the happy time of falling in love, tenderness and affection.
Step 3
When you decide to open your heart to love, help yourself. One mental decision will not be enough, you need to tune yourself in the right way. Add a romantic mood to your life, even if you haven't met your soul mate or someone you would like to see next to you. Read books about love, watch romantic movies, listen to lyric music.
Step 4
To fully open up to love, you just need a person who can help you trust this feeling. If in your environment there is no person who could become your soul mate, do not despair - look for him. This does not mean that you have to walk around the city and try to fall in love with everyone you meet. It will be enough not to alienate those who sincerely want to get to know you.
Step 5
Try to make new acquaintances on your own, because it is not known exactly where you will meet your love. Leave home more often, visit theaters, exhibitions or just cafes and nightclubs. Try to meet on the Internet, often such acquaintances develop into a real relationship. The main thing is, if you decide to open your heart to love, help it. Do not give up your decision, even if some acquaintance turns out to be unsuccessful. Do not return to the past, look for your future, and then you will understand that you have been hiding from love for so long in vain.
