The relationship between a man and a woman is a topic that will never lose its relevance for every person, and which has worried people for a long time. Women are very different from men, just like men differ from women, and sometimes it seems to women that the representatives of the stronger sex are generally impossible to understand - but in fact, you can form a harmonious intellectual and emotional contact with a man if you understand how to treat him and how to communicate with him so that you understand each other.
Instructions
Step 1
Think about the reason for your disagreement. Temporarily forget about complaints and grievances - try to look at problems and misunderstandings soundly. Try to look at things from the perspective of a man - perhaps those things that seem to you one, seem completely different to him.
Step 2
Also, you should not reduce all relationships with a man to your own attractiveness. Men want women to be beautiful and well-groomed, but your appearance does not always contain the root of all problems.
Step 3
Imagine that a man is not an alien, but simply a representative of another culture, a resident of another country, and he is the same person like you, just accustomed to different traditions and peculiarities of thinking.
Step 4
Try to get into the position of a man, to understand the train of his thoughts, to feel which things are more important to him and which are less important. Look at yourself from the outside - perhaps some features of your behavior are perplexing and seem incomprehensible to a man.
Step 5
Do not be overly self-confident - some women make an irreparable mistake, believing that their internal organization is complex and subtle, and the male internal organization is simple and banal, and therefore the reason for not understanding the complex female nature is only in the man, and not in yourself. A man is the same self-sufficient and multifaceted person as you are, and if you accept all sides of him, he will accept your characteristics in return.
Step 6
Do not make claims to the man in relation to his communication style, talkativeness or reticence, and other character traits - the man will not understand why you are unhappy and will feel even more misunderstood.
Step 7
Men love accuracy and concreteness - so avoid translucent hints at certain circumstances. It may seem to you that it is elementary to understand a hint, but a man may simply not notice it. When explaining something to a man and communicating with him, use clear and concise language.
Step 8
Do not get frustrated and do not blame a man for not understanding your feelings and aspirations - he just needs to translate these feelings and signs shown by you into a language that he understands. Be patient - a patient and understanding woman will be loved by any representative of the stronger sex who wants to arrange a harmonious family life no less than you.
