Many children's problems seem far-fetched and insignificant to adults. However, if you do not help the child deal with them, the baby may develop self-doubt, fear of independent life, and unwillingness to communicate with other people. If a child is teased at school, you should not close your eyes and think that everything will be solved by itself. You should help him solve the problem of relationships with classmates.
Instructions
Step 1
Most of the problems that a child has at school can be solved even in the preschool period. Children, determining for themselves who is “their own” and who is not, are based on how much a single child is similar to the rest. Take a closer look at your child, what exactly about him causes dislike or ridicule in other children. For example, if the future student is not very accurate, teach him to take care of himself in the preschool period, so you will help the kid prepare for an independent school life.
Step 2
Very often, the reason a child is teased at school may be due to their weight. Too thin children are called "dystrophics" and "skeletons", and overweight children are called "fat men." Monitor the child's nutrition, pay attention to his physical form, write to the sports section. You should not reassure the child, saying that everything will be solved by itself, teach him to love himself and strive for self-improvement. It is especially good if you support the endeavors of your son or daughter and organize joint sports.
Step 3
Another reason for the ridicule of others is poor eyesight in a child. So that the child does not hesitate to wear glasses, choose a fashionable frame with him, choose a model that is convenient for him. Tell your child that glasses are worn by many world celebrities, and you shouldn't be ashamed of your poor eyesight.
Step 4
If a child is persevering, studies well, is in good standing with teachers, this may be a reason for the envy of classmates. To prevent your child from being teased as a “nerd,” explain to him that you should not be arrogant about those who are worse at school because of your good grades. You should not ask yourself and put yourself above others. However, you should not follow the lead of your classmates. You don't have to let others cheat in order to gain the respect of others. The authority of classmates must be earned.
Step 5
Sometimes children tease each other because they are too short or too tall. Explain to your son or daughter that every person is special and you shouldn't be ashamed of your height. Choose beautiful and fashionable clothes for your child, make sure that he does not slouch.
Step 6
If your child is having trouble at school because of the way he is dressed, consider whether you are choosing the right clothes for your daughter or son. The fact is that some parents, when buying things for their children, are guided by their own taste, and the child's preferences are not taken into account. Allow the children to actively participate in the selection of clothing items, ask them what is in fashion with their peers. This will make the student feel more confident and mature.
