Even 40-50 years ago, women and men who did not marry before the age of 25 aroused sympathy and sometimes condemnation from those around them. The modern view of the family has changed. In our time, student marriage is more likely to cause confusion.
Instructions
Step 1
Society no longer condemns sex before marriage. Many couples prefer to live together for a while in order to get to know each other better and understand how the right choice was made. Often, far from the first relationship of a person grows into family life.
Step 2
Most couples decide to live separately from their relatives and not depend on them financially. People who have received education and have achieved success in their careers can afford it.
Step 3
Modern couples most often get married when they decide to have children. A lot of money from the family budget is spent on the baby. At the same time, more and more often mothers try to stay with the child as long as possible. Grandmothers often continue to work and cannot sit with their grandchildren. Also, families often live in different cities with their parents. Therefore, whenever possible, mothers take leave from work to care for a child up to 3 years old. At this time, the father becomes the only breadwinner in the family. To support the whole family, he must earn a lot. Therefore, more and more often men do not seek to marry before the age of 30.
Step 4
Many women want to be realized in the profession before the baby is born. This will allow you to save up a certain amount of money that the family can manage while the mother is on maternity leave. In addition, a few years after the birth of a baby, it will be easier for a woman to return to the profession, because she is an experienced technician. Therefore, more and more often young girls do not seek to marry early.
Step 5
Young people prefer to spend time pleasantly with each other and get as many impressions as possible. Up to 25-30 years old, lovers can attend fun and interesting events, travel and devote a lot of time to their hobbies. The couple seeks to accumulate a stock of happy joint experiences that will further unite the family, because for several years after the birth of children, spouses rarely manage to be alone for a long time.
Step 6
In modern society, people have the opportunity to live for themselves. Young people prefer to meet with different partners for some time and not get married, so that at a young age they do not take responsibility for their other half and children. Therefore, more and more often men marry no earlier than 30-35 years old, and women get married by 25-30 years old. By this time, they acquire not only financial stability, but also mature morally. The deliberate choice of a partner and parent for the unborn child makes such marriages more durable compared to youth unions.
