Pleasing a man is not easy. Does he constantly criticize you? Is the skirt too short and your nails too long? And they did not have time to prepare breakfast, and he asked from the evening. How do you become perfect for a guy who is too harsh on your weaknesses?
Instructions
Step 1
First of all, understand how you yourself feel about yourself. Yes, look at yourself not as strangers, but with your own eyes. Don't be strict, but don't play down the flaws either. There is always something to work on. Think of your imperfections as an opportunity to become better, do not engage in self-criticism.
Step 2
Then ask the guy what exactly confuses him about you. Let him honestly say on what points you are falling short of the ideal. If his statements did not seem absurd to you, start working on yourself.
Step 3
As a rule, the comments concern the appearance. Fitness, beautician and hairdresser will help you here. Remember that sometimes morning exercises are enough to tidy up your figure, leave many hours of exercise on simulators to fans of sports achievements.
Step 4
Refresh your wardrobe. If your boyfriend doesn't like short skirts and you adore them, look for a compromise. For example, choose long skirts with a slit. In no case should you give up your favorite things simply because someone didn't like them. Explain that without the old sweater that your grandmother once knitted, you are cold and uncomfortable. And in general, vintage things are now in vogue.
Step 5
Learn new culinary experiences. Treat yourself, not only him. May the updates be a joy to you too. Remain yourself, do not do something contrary to your inner feelings.
Step 6
Remind yourself that there are no women without flaws, and do not be confused by the photos of glossy beauties in glossy magazines. Cover models are made beautiful not only by a variety of image processing methods, but also by the photographer's loving looks. Is there love in your relationship?
Step 7
If, despite all your efforts, the man did not succeed in pleasing the man, and the stream of criticism does not stop, no matter what you do, think about it - is the person next to you? Maybe you were a little too quick to proclaim him the man of your life.
Step 8
They say that the pursuit of the ideal makes a girl better. And along the way, you will definitely meet someone who will appreciate not only your external data.
