He believes that he has already told her enough to win her heart, and she, listening to him, is looking for an excuse to quickly end this meaningless conversation. In order for such situations to occur as rarely as possible, the guy needs to learn a thing or two.
Instructions
Step 1
Follow etiquette. Compliance with the elementary rules of decency, as well as the manifestation of good manners will show the respectful attitude of the guy to the girl and will win her over to him. But in order for the behavior of a guy to be natural, he must behave in this way at all times, and not only in order to please a certain girl.
Step 2
Keep the conversation going. It is often common for guys to talk about themselves and their interests, but a girl in such an environment will not be comfortable, and she will try to disappear as soon as possible. Therefore, be interested in the opinion and point of view of the lady.
Step 3
Show that you can be relied on. Usually young people boast that they can afford to entertain themselves for a long time in fashionable clubs. This can impress young and immature individuals. But mature girls will be respectful and friendly to those guys who know how to make money and use it wisely, and not spend everything on entertainment.
Step 4
Maintain your hygiene. It is the cleanliness and neatness that makes the first impression. And if it is not the best, then it will be difficult to rectify the situation. Make sure your hair is clean and combed, there is no unpleasant odor from your mouth and body, there is no dirt under your nails, and your clothes are fresh and ironed.
Step 5
Be proactive. Of course, in modern society, many are calm about the fact that a girl is the first to show attention to a guy, and for some it even plays into the hands. But deep down, any young woman would like the first step to come from a man. This would be clear evidence that he is serious, responsible and thinking about the future.
Step 6
Don't bother. If the girl is not eager to communicate with you or answers specifically "no" to your proposal to start dating, then respect her choice. By persuading, annoying and begging, you only make yourself look not in the best light.
Step 7
Be moderate in your feelings. Men often pride themselves on how easily they can get the attention of the female half with the help of flirting. But in an effort to conquer a specific girl, this can play a cruel joke. She may think that you are too frivolous and not seriously interested in her. Therefore, be careful with flirting.
