Although there should be trust in the relationship between husband and wife, it should not be "rose-colored". Cheating on her husband suggests that something is wrong in the relationship. Ultimately, cheating can destroy a family. Often women try to "bring out" their husbands by checking his mobile phone, Internet correspondence and even his pockets. However, there are more reliable ways to find out if your husband is faithful to you. And you don't have to resort to such dubious methods.
Instructions
Step 1
One of the first signs that a husband is dating someone may be a long, regular “absence from work” outside of working hours. This is especially noticeable when the husband did not have overtime work before. Also, you may notice that your husband has become estranged from you at the same time. Doesn't pay attention as before. Or, on the contrary, has become more gentle towards you than usual. This may mean that your husband wants to divert your attention from suspicions of his loyalty. In addition, you may notice that your husband is taking more care of his appearance than usual. Or that when he comes back from "overtime" his eyes sparkle. These and other signs indicate changes in your husband, which may indicate his "left hikes". However, these signs cannot be entirely trusted. Perhaps your husband really works more than usual, and does not pay attention to you because he is tired. Perhaps he wants to "freshen up" your relationship. Therefore, one cannot rely only on external signs.
Step 2
The tendency to flirt and "go to the left" can be determined by how the husband behaves in a public place. Does he pay all his attention only to you, or does he periodically turn to women? Does he look at other women with an appraising, interested or “groping” gaze? Does he tend to swagger in demeanor? Does she wear tight-fitting clothing to attract the attention of the opposite sex? If you see these signs, don't blame your husband for looking at others or dressing up to get attention. First, reproaches don't change anything. Secondly, even if the husband changes his behavior, nature will not change from this. Secondly, your husband will reproach you with jealousy in return. Just draw conclusions for yourself that the husband may not resist the temptation and is not inclined to monogamy.
Step 3
You can tell if a husband is capable of infidelity by sign language. Talk confidentially with your husband and ask a simple question: “How important is fidelity to you”? This question may seem a little silly to you, but it has one advantage. It is that this is a direct question. So, it suggests a direct answer. The main thing is to ask the question at the right moment, as if "by the way". Listen not only to what he says, but also how he speaks. How sincere is his speech, is there bitterness, resentment, anger in his voice? Does he use protective gestures, such as crossing his arms over his chest? Or maybe you felt tension in his body? Also pay attention to non-verbal cues such as avoiding gaze, rubbing your earlobe or the tip of your nose, and tilting your body and shoulders away from you. They are also protective gestures. Coquettish facial expressions - for example, lips with a bow, playful smile - suggests that he perceives intimate relationships as a game.
Step 4
The tendency to cheat can be determined from the photograph. Look at your photos where you are together. It is better if these photographs are full-length. Imagine there is a magnetic pole between you in the photo. If both of you lean towards the magnetic pole in the same way, then you are a harmonious couple. Or are you both straying from the magnetic pole? Or is one of you deviating from the magnetic pole and the other reaching for it? It happens that one partner "flirts with the camera", while the other looks at him with a loving gaze … So, the one of you who shifts the body away from the "magnetic pole" may be prone to betrayal. Be observant and you will see many things that you didn’t pay attention to before.
Step 5
But the best thing about her husband's infidelity is his aura. After each sexual contact, the person's aura is associated with the aura of the sexual partner for 3 days. Even if it was an isolated case of intimacy, for 72 hours the person's aura contains this information. This change in the partner's aura will tell about the partner's infidelity better than any outward signs.
Step 6
However, think about this. The thought is material. If you think all the time that your husband can cheat on you, sooner or later this will happen. Therefore, in the first place should be not thoughts of betrayal, but love. Remember that no amount of loyalty and devotion will last forever if you criticize your husband, try to remake him and do not appreciate what is.
