First date … At these words, the girl's heart will beat excitedly. Many questions immediately arise: how to dress, whether to come on time or be late, what to talk about with a guy, how to behave on this very first date? Finally, where to go with him?
First of all, you must understand: how much do you like the guy? More precisely - what do you want from him? A long, serious relationship with the prospect of starting a family, or a short-term, non-binding, whirlwind romance? Based on the answer to this question, choose both the clothes for the first date and the demeanor. If a guy interests you only as a short-term sexual partner, your first date will almost certainly end in bed. Accordingly, it must be carried out either on your territory or on its territory - an apartment, a country house, taking care that no one bothers you. If you have serious views on him, do not rush to bring the matter to intimacy. In no case should a guy have the idea that you are an overly relaxed, easily accessible girl. Of course, you don't need to behave like an overly shy touchy person, but it's worth keeping the golden mean. The choice of a place for a date will then depend on your tastes, preferences, weather, financial capabilities. The girl should take this into account in advance, so as not to accidentally put her boyfriend in an awkward position. For example, even if she is very fond of fine food, it is hardly worth insisting on a date at an expensive restaurant. It is quite possible to spend time in a cozy cafe or bar or bowling alley. If the weather is warm (late spring, summer or early autumn), you should wander through the park or go out of town. In the event that a girl loves animals very much, you can hint the guy that it is worth going to the zoo. There is a double benefit: such a trip will be relatively inexpensive, and the girl will surely get into a good mood, observing the behavior of the smaller brothers. If it is winter now and it is not very cold at the same time, you can remember that during the youth of grandparents, the skating rink was considered the most romantic place for a first date. Of course, for this, at least, the gentleman must be more or less good on skates. If his partner hardly knows how to skate, the young man will have a great reason to hold her hand or hug her around the waist all the time, without risking to seem too intrusive. You can go to the recreation park, to the museum, to the cinema, to a concert of your favorite band. There are many options. The main thing, in the end, is not the place of the date, but the atmosphere. You should feel good, comfortable in each other's company.
