Some divorced women find it easy to find a man who becomes the husband and father of their children for the rest of their lives. Others, having the first unsuccessful experience of marriage, in memory of which there are children, unsuccessfully try to create a new family.
Instructions
Step 1
Unfortunately, in society, the desire to associate oneself with a “divorcee” with a child from a previous marriage is perceived negatively. But, fortunately, there are still men who are sympathetic to this. They are comfortable with this marriage for several reasons. Know that your advantage is having children as proof of fertility, as well as independence and responsibility, because you have already lived alone and solved all family problems without outside help. Observing a man's mother's relationship with her child helps him draw conclusions about the character of a potential wife. So do not despair, marriage with a woman who has children does not scare the stronger sex if they prefer marriage to a bachelor life.
Step 2
Finding the right partner is not easy. A woman with a child needs to have clear criteria for choosing a man, perhaps even to be mercantile, because she is responsible not only for her personal well-being, but also for the lives of her children. The main thing is that after a divorce, do not focus only on home, work and children: go out, communicate with friends. You can register on a dating site, sometimes an established relationship develops into something serious. Pay attention to sports clubs, various technical forums: there are many men among their visitors.
Step 3
Try not to transfer the sins of your ex-spouse to all men. Analyze the list of his mistakes and be more attentive to the behavior of the intended partner. If possible, visit a psychologist to get rid of the bitterness of the previous relationship and not look for a person with negative qualities of the previous husband. Divorced women often make this mistake.
Step 4
Remember that you don't have to constantly remind others how hard it is for you to raise your child alone. But do not hide the presence of children from a potential spouse. This is a big mistake that can be perceived by a man as a deliberate deception.
Step 5
Do not worry that the “new” father will always remember that he is not raising his children. This does not mean at all that friendly, friendly relations based on respect, interest and mutual trust will not be able to develop between him and the child.
Step 6
Remember to always be attractive and charming. This implies a good hairdo, neat clothes, a fit shape, and an open, welcoming smile. She erases traces of fatigue from her face that frighten off the stronger sex.
