Often, at an early age, men form an image of a woman whom they would like to see as their wife. Often this image is largely idealized and difficult to match. Let's try to figure out what you should pay attention to in the first place when choosing your second half.
It is necessary
- 1. Life experience
- 2. Stories of real people
Instructions
Step 1
First, make sure that in the presence of the woman you like, you can be yourself, and not impersonate someone else. To do this, check yourself: can you tell everything to this woman. This refers to whether you can talk to her about your fears, desires, etc. or you are shy about something.
Step 2
Find out how similar your plans and decisions for the future are. If a man and a woman see their future too differently, most likely they are not on the way. Everyone will move in their own direction, which as a result always leads to conflicts.
Step 3
Make sure the girl respects your opinion. The future wife will always respect your opinion on any issue. Naturally, each person has his own thoughts and views on life. But reckoning with another person is simply necessary so as not to turn each other's life into hell.
Step 4
Don't trust too much the person's appearance. She is often deceiving. An evil person may be hiding behind a pretty face, and vice versa. You must understand that not friends and relatives should like your wife, but you.
Step 5
Work on yourself. Remember to meet on the most ordinary day, so you need to try to be in a good mood, positive, smiling. Do not forget, too, that the future wife is not necessarily some mysterious stranger. This woman can be among your friends, colleagues or neighbors.
