The psyche of a child at any age is very vulnerable. Stresses, fears, negative manifestations of the surrounding life have a negative impact on the formation of his mental state, his character.
Family problems
The family is the foundation on which the whole life of the child is built. The interpersonal relationship between parents and children determines how a child's family behavior model is formed.
Parents should take into account that the child learns to communicate with them. It is the parents who provide an example of behavior for the child. Accordingly, if mom and dad constantly swear, call each other names, fight, then the child perceives this as the norm of communication in the family. At the same time, such a parental relationship inflicts irreparable trauma on the child's psyche.
In his future family, the child will begin to build the same relationships that he observed in childhood. Hearing curses from his father and mother, he will begin to talk to his children in a similar way.
The attitude of a parent to a son or daughter is also of great importance for their development. If mom or dad yell at their child using swear words, then this leads to the formation of a downtrodden personality of the baby. Subsequently, it will be difficult for him to believe in his capabilities, he will grow up as a mentally unbalanced person.
If there are two or more children in the family, the attitude of the parents towards them should be the same. Otherwise, the child to whom less attention is expressed feels flawed, “wrong”. He tries to earn the love of adults. Not having achieved this, he begins to feel anger at his parents and other children. Over the years, this negative attitude will be very difficult to reverse.
Other problems
The child's psyche can be traumatized by the negative attitude of the people around him. These can be peers in kindergarten or school, teachers, neighbors. Parents should keep track of their child's social circle.
Become a friend to your little one. This will give you the opportunity to control his relationship.
It is important how the teacher or class teacher builds the interpersonal relationships of children in the group. He needs to stop other children from harming one child. The inaction of an adult leads to a violation of the psyche of the persecuted child, this can entail dire consequences. In addition, other children learn that in this way they can gain undeserved superiority.
When a child is a leader by nature, he will unconsciously strive for leadership in a group of children. If this does not happen, the child may experience a breaking of the stereotype of behavior. To survive such a moment, he will need the help of adults.
