Marriage is not only a serious and responsible step for future spouses, but also the biggest dream for many women. But men often do not share this desire and do not rush to the altar at all. Before solving this problem, you need to figure out what is the reason for their inaction.
Instructions
Step 1
If you have been dating for quite a long time, or maybe you live together, and your man is already satisfied with everything, and he does not even think to legitimize the relationship, then most likely he is just a hunter by nature and perceives you as prey, which already won. In this case, you need to make every effort to prove to him otherwise. That is, that you are not his property, that you have other interests and your own life.
Create one or more hobbies for yourself. Make the most of your time. And so that you enjoy it. Thus, the time you spend together will be reduced and he will feel a lack of communication with you. Try to be around people more and be at home less. If a man sees that you are interested in other personalities, his interest in you will increase dramatically. Of course, you should not openly flirt with other men if you are not sure about the adequate reaction of your significant other.
In addition, it will not be superfluous to be together at weddings with friends and relatives. Perhaps the atmosphere of joy and fun will infect him, and your man's thoughts will begin to work in the direction you need.
Step 2
If your man is not Julius Caesar and cannot concentrate on several things at the same time (for example, if he is working on an important project or writing a scientific article), then you just need to wait. The main thing is not to miss the moment of "break", otherwise one important matter will be replaced by another, and he again will not be able to think about marrying you.
Step 3
If your loved one, before starting a family, wants to buy an apartment, a car, etc., you should carefully discuss this with him and explain that when you get married, it will be easier for you to make all your wishes come true together, and even so it will be much more interesting.
Step 4
If a man is afraid to marry because of change, responsibility and the loss of his precious freedom, you need to first push him to live together or just a regular vacation for a couple of weeks. During this time, try to lead a life together, and also not limit his freedom, that is, if he wants to go to the bathhouse with friends, there is no need to make a scandal. This will only scare him away. But if you do everything right, your loved one will understand that the changes that will occur in his life after the wedding are not so terrible.
