Anything happens in family life. It often happens that love somehow ends imperceptibly, leaving behind a heap of resentment and discontent with your husband. Divorce in such a situation will be the easiest and most wrong decision. It will be much wiser and better for everyone to love their husband.
Instructions
Step 1
This can be tricky, especially after months or even years of marital turmoil. However, don't be alarmed. Remember that the atmosphere in the house depends entirely on the woman, and if you are determined to return love to your husband, you will definitely succeed.
Step 2
Sit down and remember where your conflicts began. Most often they arise because a woman begins to compare her husband with the husbands of her friends, bosses and other acquaintances of men. They seem to her to be better men than her own husband: they earn more, are friendly, help with the household, etc. And your own husband, no matter from which side you look at him, is not drawn to the knight. The woman begins to express this displeasure to her husband, he takes offense and looks for something to prick his wife, and a tangle of grievances grows like a snowball. After realizing that this destructive pattern of behavior is in your relationship, make the decision to stop comparing your husband to anyone else. He should be your default ideal, just because he is your husband. Also, remember that other men only seem so great from afar because you don't know all the nuances. Their wives, most likely, do not consider them as such either.
Step 3
Once you decide to think of your husband as the ideal man, start praising him. A man needs to give 3 to 5 compliments a day. Let them not be trivial. The compliment “what beautiful eyes you have” will most likely not be appreciated by the husband. But your words about what a reliable man he is, how good you are with him, most likely, will give him great pleasure. Remember, a man should be treated the way you want to be treated.
Step 4
Start a diary in which every evening write down the merits of your husband and all his good deeds that made you happy today. Write about any little things, bypassing those actions that caused your irritation. In the morning, make yourself a habit of rereading this diary from cover to cover, and only then wake your husband up. You will be surprised to see that your attitude towards your husband will change dramatically in just a few days.
