If you are the happy parents of a girl, then you should know firsthand that each of them dreams of being more beautiful than everyone else in the world. And you, of course, remind her that she is beautiful almost every day. But have you ever thought about the fact that this can lead to trouble?
It seems that life on this planet is easier for people with a beautiful appearance and a well-built figure than those to whom nature was not so generous. However, in practice, it turns out that this is not the most important thing, and in life you still need to know and be able to do a lot in order to survive. When a child grows up, great changes take place in his appearance, and even yesterday's swan, no matter how offensive it may seem, will turn into an ordinary gray duckling. And if the girl was taught to rely only on her beautiful face, then in her life she will face only difficulties and suffering.
Of course, she can manage to find a good job, find her prince and even marry him. But as soon as her beauty begins to fade, it becomes clear that there is only emptiness behind this beauty.
No one would argue that a girl needs to be able to take care of her appearance. But don't get hung up on this. After all, you do not want to get a capricious queen with star fever in a couple of years?
Compliments about their appearance are possible and even necessary - those girls who have everything in order with their appearance, they just are not sure of themselves. In the end, when a young beauty grows up, she will be convinced of the truthfulness of your words, but at the same time she will not acquire such bad qualities as narcissism or vanity.
And if the girl still has minor problems with her appearance, her mother will have to teach her to correct them. It is necessary to make it clear to the child that these are not disadvantages, but features. A small scar in the form of an asterisk, or this hated mole, because no one else has this. And it's amazing that all people on the planet are different. Give an example of beautiful, but smart and successful women who used, or are now, insanely popular, although they never fit into the existing ideals of beauty. It is especially necessary to make sure that the girl does not attract too much attention from adult men. Tell her that clothes and makeup should be appropriate and appropriate for the occasion.
Long legs and tall stature could be accidentally presented to any of us by a capricious fate. But grooming, good manners and upbringing, a sense of humor, the ability to apply makeup and good taste - all this is achieved with the help of a strong will and a strong character.
