Like any mother, you love your children more than anything else. You are trying to give them all the best, to educate them to be smart and well-mannered people. But very often children simply refuse to understand you, it seems to them that you are putting pressure on them. You are losing the thread of understanding, children crying is increasingly heard in the house. Think about it, maybe you really want too much from them?
Instructions
Step 1
Most importantly, remember that you are an example for your children. Everything you do and say is considered normal for babies. If you do the wrong thing, after a while you will notice that one of your children is doing the same. Do you want to see them kind and well-mannered? Meet your requirements! Be a role model. Live the right life, forget about bad habits, play sports, be friendly with other people, and your children will grow up to be just as wonderful personalities.
Step 2
Remember that every child has their own personality. You should see them as individuals with their own needs, tastes and interests. Do not try to make your dreams come true through children, which were once not destined to come true. Don't force them to do what you wanted to do. Give them the choice. Support them in all their endeavors, and they will appreciate you even more.
Step 3
Remember that children, like adults, can have mood swings. Sometimes they will be too cheerful, and sometimes they will be bored all day long, they will be sad and capricious. Don't be mad at them for this. Try to cheer up better, and if it doesn't work out, just surround them with affection and care.
Step 4
Do not raise your voice at children, and even more so, do not use physical punishment. This will only frighten the little ones. Always stay calm no matter what happens. Keep your emotions in check. If children see your weakness, they will not be able to be completely sure that you will always be able to protect them from everything. And a sense of security is very important for them.
Step 5
Communicate more with your children. Spend all your free time with them. If they do not understand something, do not be lazy to explain it to them even dozens of times. Share your life experiences with them, as they don't have theirs yet. But do not decide everything in the world for them, they should be able to be independent.
Step 6
Establish a relationship of trust. If you severely scold and punish kids for all their misdeeds, they will begin to lie to you and hide their actions. Do you want them to trust you completely? Be a little more loyal, explain what they did wrong, and ask them not to do it again. Then children will not be afraid to tell you about their mistakes.
