In some modern families, a totalitarian regime still dominates, when parents completely take control of the child's life, thereby limiting his normal development. In order for a child to grow up independent, it is necessary to know the measure of the power of the parents. But, unfortunately, parents themselves do not always understand this. In this article, we will look at how, as a child, to prove to parents that you yourself are able to control your existence and fully develop.
Prove that you are right with your actions.
If you constantly fight with your parents about any life problems, for example, because of your academic performance, then you should not try to present yourself in a favorable light with ridiculous speech turns. Better to try to achieve significant success in your educational activities and become an independent person. Parents will undoubtedly appreciate this act.
Show concern and respect
Parents are people too, and in your case, they are your closest friends and companions. Don't let small arguments ruin your family happiness. Be tolerant. Go through a difficult moment with the hope that things will work out soon.
Act like an adult
Change your behavior. Get on the bar higher. Childhood is childhood, but once you have to grow up. Be mindful of what you do. Act as if you are already a well-to-do adult. And then you will begin to be respected in the family circle.
Don't ask too much of your parents.
Look at your family from the outside. What is missing in your relationship? Try to determine the cause of these gaps in your family history. Maybe it's all about you? If so, then you need to carefully work on yourself. Also, the reason can be the work schedule of parents, because due to problems at work, parents often become aggressive and transfer their aggression to the family. In this case, you need to talk to your parents and explain that all work points must be left outside the door.
Adopt your parents
People cannot be changed if they themselves do not want to. Don't even try to instill new traits and qualities in your parents. Just accept the ones they already have. Any disadvantages can be turned into advantages.
