At first glance, men are more independent, they are stronger and more independent than us women. They whine and complain less, do not panic at the first failure, do not invent problems for themselves and do not complex. In fact, this is not entirely true, because from childhood the boy is taught that he should not show his emotions “like a girl”, and even if it hurts and hurts, he should not cry. Of course, this is correct, but as a result of the fact that emotions are constantly held back, any stress is experienced much more strongly.
Instructions
Step 1
We, women, are much more observant than men, so it will not be difficult for you to understand that your beloved, friend or just a colleague at work is very upset and worried about something, although he continues to joke and smile. This is exactly the case when you, a woman, need to support a man. You need to unobtrusively find out what happened to him and offer your help.
Step 2
Seize the moment when you will be alone with him, and no one will bother you. Start the conversation by giving him a subtle compliment, make it clear that you are friendly to him, say that you noticed his concern, and ask for the reason. If a refusal follows, do not insist, it is enough that you have already supported him with your participation and desire to help.
Step 3
If a problem has been shared with you, take the issue calmly and without panic. If your husband or friend sees your reaction like this, it will help him calm down. Listen to him, but do not start giving ill-considered advice right away. Ask him for time to think about the situation and get out of it. Do not forget to say that, for sure, he will find a solution to the problem, express confidence that he will definitely be able to do this, this will also support him and give strength.
Step 4
Scientists have found that even a friendly female touch acts magically on a man and gives him strength. This is on a subconscious level associated with the feeling of security that arises in a child when his mother touches him. Perhaps, if the situation permits, it will be enough just to touch his hand. Thus, you seem to say to him "I believe that you can handle it."
