Sometimes it is not easy for young people to approach a girl in order to meet or start a conversation. It is especially difficult if you really like her, because a possible refusal can be perceived as a real tragedy. It is important to follow several rules here.
Instructions
Step 1
Do not delay, act decisively. The longer you wait, ponder the situation and possible answers, the more difficult it is to decide. If you really like a girl, be sure to get to know her as soon as possible in order to get to know her better - this is the only way she will get the opportunity to love you too.
Step 2
Remember that all girls, without exception, like the attention of the opposite sex, especially during adolescence. Even if she refuses at the beginning (for example, from surprise), she will still be pleased and, perhaps, in the future she will look at you with different eyes.
Step 3
Think in advance at least the first phrase. Do not start with jokes or obscene jokes, but the seemingly "standard" beginning is "Girl, can I meet you?" may well be successful. If you have known a girl for a long time, for example, from school or college, make an innocent request or question. Please note that your question should lead to further conversation, otherwise on the phrase "Do you have a pen" everything can end with the answer "No". Better to ask if she will go to the dining room and ask for a company.
Step 4
To meet a girl, act boldly and decisively. Girls (and not only them) love confident young people. However, a quiet shy woman can be frightened with a strong pressure, so when you see such a reaction, you can slow down.
Step 5
Be sure to smile. If there is no way to approach right away, smile at her from afar, you can even wink. When you receive a smile or a return wink in response, act decisively - you have nothing to fear, she clearly liked you. If there is no answer, do not be upset - this does not mean anything, since you do not know each other yet.
Step 6
Before you start talking to a girl, draw attention to yourself, and not necessarily by appeal. Try to lightly touch her on the shoulder or, after catching up on the street, walk a few steps nearby. In a cafe, sit on a chair nearby, and if there is no chair, bring it yourself. It is very important to feel comfortable and confident when you meet.
Step 7
Do not let go of the girl's attention, ask more questions and listen carefully to the answers. Try to understand what she is interested in and what she enjoys. If you understand what kind of person she is, it will be much easier for you to communicate.
