Sometimes you want a guy to just leave you alone. “Why can't I be invisible?” You think when you see him heading towards you. Some people simply do not understand the hints, all that remains is to completely ignore them. Here's how you can do it.
It is necessary
- Patience
- Determination
- Confidence that you are doing the right thing
Instructions
Step 1
Use modern technology. Cell phone, PDA, MP3 player will help you look very busy and not inclined to communicate. Every time he comes to you, just start a conversation with your friend, or better with a friend on your mobile, go deep into your computer or turn on the player.
Step 2
Lower your eyes. Don't meet his gaze. On the street, in the corridor, in the office, if you do not hear someone calling your name, you may simply not notice the person, right? Turn away and go about your business.
Step 3
If there is no way to leave, use body language. Crossed arms and legs are a clear sign that you don't want to communicate with someone. So does the gloomy look.
Step 4
Turn away. Pretend that you are extremely interested in something on the opposite side of the street, on the wall in the hallway, or on your computer. Open the bag and start looking for something in it, get out the mirror and touch up your makeup.
Step 5
Reject his compliments. If he compliments your new dress or hairstyle, tell them that you are not interested in his opinion of your style. If he praises your work, say that you are a big girl and know your worth as a professional.
Step 6
Don't feel obligated to answer his calls, texts, or letters. You are certainly a polite girl, but all politeness has limits. Block his phone number in your mobile, set up a spam filter for his messages by e-mail.
Step 7
Never mind if he talks about you loudly with his buddies. Do you understand why he does it? So don't give him a reason to think that this is working and sooner or later he will calm down.
