Unwillingness to learn occurs in children and adolescents of different ages. This may be due to many reasons, but parents are primarily concerned about the solution to this problem.
Twos in the diary, calls from the class teacher, constant fatigue - all this accompanies the child's unwillingness to go to school and do homework. Parents need to fight this, and shouting and swearing in this case are absolutely useless. Try to figure out the reason. There can be many of them - conflict with the teacher, problems with classmates, misunderstanding of one or several subjects, as well as banal laziness. If the problem is in the teacher, then feel free to go to school and communicate with him directly. Find out the origins of the dislike and look for a way out of this situation. Problems with classmates are solved by calling a class meeting and discussing the personal relationships of children in their own presence (all this is done with the participation of the class teacher). If your child does not understand a subject, then it is worth considering tutoring. First of all, contact your teacher - most likely he will not refuse you help. Laziness is common in adolescent children. Find out what the reason is. Perhaps the child is overwhelmed by numerous circles, tutoring and sections. If so, discuss with him what he would like to give up. The main thing is not to insist on your own - he has his own opinion on everything, which he needs to be allowed to express. If laziness is not related to something specific, then you will have to start building motivation. Motivation of your child should not be limited to a cash bonus for every five received. First, explain what education is for at all: it is erudition, good work and salary in the future, and today - respect and trust of peers. At the end of the year, it will not be superfluous to fulfill one desire of your child, let him strive for something. Do your homework together. As part of the fight against laziness and misunderstanding, sit down with your child to complete assignments for several evenings in a row. He will be pleased to know that parents will always come to the rescue. In addition, you can figure out difficult tasks for him and spend an extra couple of hours with the child.
