Children are unique creatures. It seems that they will never learn to be independent, for example, they will not even be able to hold cutlery themselves. But one wonderful day your baby began to eat himself, and categorically rejects any attempts to help him in this. You may be teaching your daughter how to knit or crochet, but all efforts are in vain. Do not be upset and nervous, most likely, this occupation is not at all for her, maybe her vocation is to be a cook or a pastry chef.
The presence of parents nearby plays an important role in daily victories or defeats for babies. In moments of victory, we feel pride and happiness, we rejoice in any of their achievements. Sometimes we are a little sad and anxious when a child does not succeed in everything.
The task of the parents is to understand the character of the child. But one must not only understand him, but also accept him as he is. This is the key to the successful development of the baby. You need to subtly direct his energy in the right direction. Only in this case your efforts will not be empty and will bear the desired results. You will be assisted by tact and delicacy. In some cases, it is worth making concessions to the baby.
All children are individual, special in their development and character. There is no need to compare him with his peers. Also, do not pay attention and get hung up on all kinds of signs for the development of children, indicating the degree of possession of certain skills and abilities. After all, it is quite natural if your child does not fit into this framework: perhaps he is lagging behind or, on the contrary, is ahead of the indicators.
Many psychologists and pediatricians believe that the most important emotional habits are established in the first three years of a baby's life. In the future, they have a great impact on his development as a person. Try to devote more time to the child, pay more attention, show more care. After all, this way you will make him feel protected, loved and united with his family. Note that children who do not know the love, warmth and care of their parents cannot trust other people in the future, they cannot show their true feelings. Apathy and depression accompany them.
Requirements must be made for older children. You will have to bend your line when raising him at any age. This is necessary so that he unquestioningly listens to you, does not argue, takes your remarks into account, and does not turn a deaf ear.
Children with different characters play a significant role in the formation of certain character traits and qualities. Children can differ, not only brought up in different families, but also brought up by the same parents. This sometimes leads us to bewildered why the younger child is so different from the older one. These differences were laid down in character even at their birth. But also the style and methods of upbringing affect the appearance of these very differences.
Consequently, your influence in the early stages of the formation of the child's personality directly affects the development of his skills, internal qualities.
