Real feelings can arise not only for a free, but also for a married man. He, too, can confess his love and give you tenderness. But after some time the question arises before the woman - to continue such a relationship or to find a bachelor.
Instructions
Step 1
Ask yourself what do you expect from this relationship? Do you want to always remain your beloved girl on the side or do you still dream of marriage, wedding and your family? If everything suits you, continue this relationship and enjoy the moment. But if you want more, you should make a serious decision - take this man out of the family or find another.
Step 2
Talk to your lover seriously. Ask him about your future, what kind of relationship he has with his wife, and if he is going to leave the family. If his plans include leaving and continuing your romance, immediately decide on the exact date. Do not trust his promises and beautiful words, let him prove his feelings with actions. Try to look at the situation soberly so as not to spend several years in meaningless relationships.
Step 3
Help the man decide to leave the family. If he swears in love, but has not yet decided on big changes in his life, show your best side. Give him what he lacks in family life - understanding, calmness, care, love, passion. Establish yourself as a good housewife - keep the apartment clean and comfortable, cook deliciously. Show that you can give your loved one everything that he lacks and make him happy, but only if he leaves his wife.
Step 4
Do not look at your relationship through rose-colored glasses and do not look for an excuse for his inaction. If a man has a wife, children, and an established relationship, he is unlikely to agree to leave the cozy nest. But even if this happens and you become husband and wife, will you be sure of his faithfulness? A person who has already cheated once is likely to have a mistress again.
Step 5
Let him go if the relationship only brings suffering and you don't see a happy ending. Just accept that this is not your man, love yourself, find a free and loving guy who will give you all his time and make you a legal wife.
