No one wants to share their boyfriend with another woman. Especially if it's his ex-wife. And often abandoned wives do not give rest to their husbands and interfere with their relationship with new women. Of course, here you need to understand that the past cannot be put anywhere, but you can still discourage your ex-wife.
Instructions
Step 1
The most important thing not to do is to arrange a showdown. You cannot run to her house and raise the whole entrance to your ears. In this case, the neighbors will be on her side, and you will look ridiculous. Yes, and your husband, of course, will find out about your action, and it will not be in your favor. After all, men are created in such a way that they cannot completely break the ties that they had with their former wife, especially if a child remains in that family.
Step 2
If she gets your loved one with her calls and sms, constantly requires help in raising a child, then first try to talk to her. Explain that since he left her, then she does not suit him, and nothing can be returned back. Instead of wasting time with her ex-husband, maybe she's better off looking for her new happiness.
Step 3
Say that you are not against the communication of your husband with their common child. On the contrary, suggest that she let him take his son for the weekend. You will make sure that the baby is fed on time and has a good time. And she can devote this time to herself. Maybe she will try to arrange her fate. And then it will also be grateful to you.
Step 4
If she makes such concessions, then over time you can even become friends with her. And this will allow you to control the relationship between your husband and your ex, you will always be aware of their meetings. Perhaps, in the future, you and your beloved will call in for the child so as not to leave him alone with his first wife.
Step 5
If contact has not been established, do not show the man that you are worried about his communication with the ex. Let him get the impression that you do not attach importance to these meetings, since you trust him and are confident in his love for you. This will elevate you even more in his eyes and make you take a fresh look at your relationship with your ex. Be unobtrusively interested in how the meeting with the child went, if you need help, tell me what to buy for a future visit.
Step 6
And the most reliable way to ward off an ex is to give birth to your child. Then the husband will turn his attention to the new family, he will help you in everything and he will no longer have too much time to rush to the first family on demand. Yes, and the ex-wife will understand that you have developed a family relationship, and nothing can be returned to her. And will leave you alone.
