Telling a man about pregnancy is always a difficult task, but it becomes even more difficult if you need to tell a guy you are not dating about your interesting situation.
Instructions
Step 1
First you need to decide for yourself whether or not you should even tell your ex-boyfriend that you are expecting a baby. You can find another person who will agree to accept this baby and become a father to him, or raise your child on your own. But if you still decide that the guy should know that he will soon become a dad, there are some tips that will help you inform him about this important event. First, think about your ex-boyfriend's personality. How would he take this news? If you know that he loves children, this news will surely be good for him, and he will gladly agree to help his unborn child. In this case, call the young man with confidence and make an appointment. Choose an uncrowded café or park to share this important event. No one should interfere or distract you during the conversation. You should not immediately lay out all the information, as the guy may be shocked. Better prepare the ground for a conversation and only then, when you realize that he is in a good mood, notify him of your pregnancy.
Step 2
If you are not sure that he will take this news favorably, you can seek advice from someone close to you, for example, your sister or mother, for sure they will help you make the right decision.
Step 3
Consider your financial situation. If you are confident that you can raise a child on your own, you can simply notify the guy that he will have a child. It should be added that this is your own business, you can handle it yourself, and the young man has nothing to worry about, but if he wants, he can help the baby financially or sometimes see him. Well, if you cannot support the child, it is worth thinking about how to choose the right words for the conversation. Tell your boyfriend how happy it is to have your own child, even if not from your beloved woman. Explain that the baby should not suffer from the breakdown of his parents' relationship, and this should not affect the conditions of his upbringing and life.
Step 4
Of course, it is best to provide such information at a personal meeting, but if you do not need the help of a young man, you can confront him with a fact by phone or by sending an SMS message. Follow these guidelines and you can avoid the unfortunate consequences. But always remember that the main decision remains solely with you, so listen only to yourself, because your future depends on it.
