An unwanted pregnancy is stressful for any woman. Thinking with a cold head in such a situation is not so easy, but you need to make a decision. And so you have to pull yourself together and weigh all the pros and cons, deciding to leave the child or choose an abortion.
The first, and immediately unexpected, pregnancy
Good sex is not a guarantee of a happy future together, which young girls often forget. And when, in a fit of passion, an embarrassment happens and the contraceptive fails, young people immediately begin to dream about how they and their beloved will name their first child. It's also good when a guy is not against creating a family, but what to do when he is against it?
Of course, first you need to dump the guy, and then assess the situation. If there is an opportunity to provide for a child, to devote time to him, the age is not the same when you want to walk and hang out, then definitely give birth. In the opposite situation, the unwanted child will be truly superfluous in your life, therefore it is better to have an abortion.
There is no need to be afraid of this terrible term. Abortion is not painful, and most often there are no bad consequences from it, if, of course, the procedure is carried out in a good clinic with experienced specialists.
It is better to decide on an abortion in the early stages, then the probability of not getting complications after an abortion tends to zero.
When the cause of pregnancy was the unloved or loved one, but not the husband
In this case, again, everything depends on the age and other circumstances of your life. Are you afraid of your husband? Don't want to marry someone you don't love? Are you a victim of violence? You definitely need to have an abortion so that you don't regret the birth of an unwanted child later.
It would be nice even before making a fatal choice, to consult with a possible future father, or with loved ones. Impressed by the news that you are at risk of becoming a mom soon, you can make a lot of mistakes and then regret them. Both a young girl and an adult successful woman are ready for spontaneous wrong decisions in such a situation. Therefore, do not overestimate yourself, although you should not consult with the first person you meet.
It is important not to delay, because the longer the period, the less likely it is to obtain a medical authorization for an abortion.
To make a decision whether to leave a child or have an abortion, regardless of the situation, you need to ask yourself the main question: am I ready to become a mother? If the answer to it is in the affirmative, then you should not even think about an abortion, because then more than once you will have to regret what you did. But for those who are not sure of their readiness to give birth, be a caring mother, change diapers and generally put an end to their personal lives for at least a couple of years of maternity leave, the doors to the gynecological department are always open for the operation to remove the fetus.
