Men do not always dare to speak out loud about their feelings. It largely depends on upbringing and character. If you are dating a man, but he does not confess his love to you, you can take the initiative and tell him about your feelings first. The main thing here is to choose the appropriate setting and time for recognition.
Instructions
Step 1
If you are still wondering whether or not you should be the first to confess your love, appreciate what you are losing. There are only two ways out of this situation - either the man will reciprocate you, or he will say that he does not feel love for you. In the second case, you will not be a loser, as you will find out for sure whether you should spend your time on a man who is indifferent to you.
Step 2
If you are going to confess your love to a man, it is better not to guess in advance how this will happen, do not write long speeches, do not build a plan of action. You will see that in reality the situation will still turn out differently, and the necessary words will surely be forgotten from excitement. The main thing is to tune in to recognition and decide with what feelings it needs to be done. After all, recognition can carry many emotions and feelings: tenderness, sadness, happiness, excitement, passion, etc. What do you want to convey to your man? This is something worth thinking about before opening your heart.
Step 3
The environment of recognition plays an important role. It is best to avoid crowded places if you are going to open up your feelings. Nothing should distract you from communicating with each other. Get the man out for a frank conversation. Take a chance and tell him about your love. Good places for recognition are parks and squares, cozy cafes and restaurants. The main thing is that no one bothers you at the moment of recognition.
Step 4
If you can't make up your mind to say the words of love as planned, there is another option - to suddenly stun the man with your confession. So to speak, throw out your feelings "on the forehead." The truth and reaction of a man can be very unpredictable. The moment of emotionality of your words is also important here. Don't demand reciprocity by confessing your love. Your goal is to tell about your feelings, that the person is really dear to you, and not to tie him to yourself forcibly.
Step 5
If you find it difficult to express your feelings in words, then you can try to express them on paper in the form of a letter or a poem. No man will be left indifferent by such a confession, written from the heart. If the chosen one does not reciprocate with you, be sure that you will leave a mark in his heart forever.
Step 6
Confess your love if you really have strong feelings for a man. He who does not take risks does not drink champagne. It is possible that if you remain silent about your feelings, you will greatly regret it later. After all, as you know, every blacksmith of his own happiness. Love is the most beautiful feeling in the world, to love is not a shame, but to admit it all the more. Only love inspires a person, makes him better and cleaner, so do not hide your feelings and be happy!
