Most psychologists consider striving and will to be the most important character traits of a successful person. Developing such qualities is a long and painstaking work that will surely delight you with results.
Develop your motivational sphere. Even an adult is not always able to achieve what he wants, so help your child achieve the desired result. Even in case of difficulties, teach your child to plan his next steps so that in the end everything works out. An independent and active child, as a rule, perfectly analyzes his own motives, because he can always answer such a question as "why exactly do I need this?"
Strong-willed character traits are formed throughout a person's life, therefore, parents should teach the child to distribute their own efforts so that a confident child can control his actions. By attracting a child to family activities, parents themselves, by their own example, can help him develop diligence and responsibility.
Make plans for the future with your child, and after a certain period, discuss with him what he did and what did not. Defeating laziness is an extremely important step in achieving goals, so you must constantly teach your child to overcome his laziness. He must learn that there are some things he needs to do on his own.
The correct attitude to the world around them contributes to the correct social adaptation of the child in society, and a respectful and sensitive attitude towards parents, peers and friends contributes to the development of the personality, that is, when a child respects others, he respects himself.
Such a child will have intentions to change the world for the better and gain recognition from others. With a positive attitude towards the world, it is always easier to achieve success.
Developing Will Through Games
Make a kind of wish list. The wonderful technique "Seven-color flower" will help the child to develop will and aspiration. Re-read the fairy tale with your child, and then invite him to make the same flower with wishes.
Discuss with him the most significant desires and think about what you can do in order to fulfill these desires. This method will teach the child not only to get what he wants, but also to make efforts to fulfill his desires.
You can also build a wall of glory. Almost every child has a wide variety of certificates, prizes and diplomas for participating in competitions and contests. Decorate all of his achievements on the wall in his living room or his room.
You can also organize a "corner of success". Such a board of honor perfectly increases children's self-esteem and helps the child to move forward in their development.
