Theft is a negative phenomenon, especially for a child. At all times, theft was punished with rods, lashes, and even more cruel punishments. In our time, theft is also punishable. And when a child does this, this situation brings both sides to tears: parent and child.
Theft at a conscious age is a widespread phenomenon. A child who stole a thing first hides it, refuses to recognize it. The first thing that comes to parents' mind is to whip the child well. But, such methods are not always good. And first of all, it is necessary to conduct preventive talks about the inadmissibility of such actions. The child must know in advance that stealing is unacceptable, even in thought.
But, if it did happen, you need to figure out what happened. There is no need to "drive the child into a corner" or shout. Try peaceful methods. Perhaps the child has already repented himself and is not happy about what happened.
Stealing by an older child is a little more complicated. If this happened more than once, and your influence does not have the desired result, then take more stringent measures. Take your child to a specialist. The psychologist will help you find a way out. It is important that you choose the "We Can Do It" tactic. That is, your support is required.
Helping your child is sometimes not difficult at all. It is important to develop the habit of your child sharing his problems with you. After all, it is easier to prevent an unpleasant situation. Be patient and considerate of your children. Often the child steals due to lack of attention from the parents. In some cases, children steal to prove to their peers, to increase their authority. Be attentive to the companies in which your child is staying. Invite your child's friends, give them tea, get to know them. Such a friendly visit will be useful for you and your child, who will be pleased with the attention of a parent.
When you know your child's friends, it will be easier for you to understand what environment the child lives in, how he breathes, what interests them. Support any positive aspirations and hobbies of the child: bicycles, karate, mountain climbing or painting. And the very concept of "theft" will recede into the background and disappear altogether. Your troubles will disappear when you become a true friend for your child who will support and protect, help solve any problems and never leave in difficult times.
