If a relationship is just starting, it is very difficult to start a frank conversation. It seems that your partner will not understand your feelings and will react to the conversation in the wrong way. But you shouldn't be afraid of it. Just prepare for the dialogue in advance by thinking through all the arguments.
Instructions
Step 1
In no case do not start a frank conversation if the young man is tired, hungry, angry with someone. The dialogue will not work. All, even the most constructive arguments, will be received with hostility. Wait for your partner to calm down and relax. First, talk about what worries him, let him open up, express everything that has accumulated in his soul. Then tell us what excites you. Try to come up with a solution to the problem together. Then the responsibility for accepting it will fall on both of you. And if you split this heavy load, it will become exactly half the weight.
Step 2
Prepare for the conversation in advance. Try to find words that don't hurt your partner. Remember what he is most sensitive to. Avoid these moments in dialogue. Speak in a calm, even voice. Do not worry! There is a loved one next to you, he will definitely understand you.
Step 3
Explain your feelings to your boyfriend. Explain why the relationship hurts or worries you. Never put pressure on your partner. Emphasize exactly what is painful and unpleasant for you. And not on the fact that he is guilty of something or does something wrong.
Step 4
Try to listen to your partner's arguments as well. You should not insist only on your own opinion. After all, next to you is a person whom you love and trust. He in no way wants to hurt you. On the contrary, a view from the outside allows you to re-evaluate the problem. Just trust the opinion of the other half and try to look at the current situation differently.
