Building relationships on lies is pointless. However, sometimes the technique of hiding the truth acts as a defensive reaction, but often subsequently grows to alarming proportions. And the longer the guy cheats, the more sophisticated methods he uses to cover up his lies.
Instructions
Step 1
Not every person is given the courage to admit that they are wrong. This gives rise to the need to somewhat embellish the natural course of events, shield oneself, make excuses and come up with non-existent details that supposedly soften the guilt. Well, so that a beautiful fairy tale does not fall apart, its continuation is born. And sometimes people literally get bogged down in their own lies and are no longer able to distinguish truth from fiction. Of course, such a critical situation should never be allowed, therefore it is important to bring the deceiver to clean water.
Step 2
If you decide to find out the truth about a problem that interests you, ask directly in the most inappropriate situation for this. The question is too simple, and the guy is thinking - most likely, he has not yet had time to come up with another lie or is simply confused. Continue the dialogue - let's not create a new fairy tale, it is much easier to understand whether a person is telling the truth or hiding something.
Step 3
Avoid standard questions because there are equally standard answers to all standard questions. Clarifications like "Why?" and why?" will also allow you to achieve the truth.
Step 4
If you ask the same questions several times, but in different situations, a person may start to get confused in those places in which he is telling a lie. However, if you are wrong about lying, then you risk getting the exact opposite effect.
Step 5
It is possible to understand that a person embellishes reality with the help of simple observation. When someone is lying, a reflex subconsciously triggers, forcing you to cover your mouth with your palm. At this point, ask the guy what he is hiding. If he really lies, such a statement of the question will put him at a standstill, and the person may inadvertently let slip.
Step 6
Men, unlike women, tend to trust facts, not intuition, so in most cases they will split only under the influence of irrefutable evidence. Therefore, if you are not sure that the guy is lying to you and he stubbornly refutes it, then it is worth waiting for the moment and collecting arguments in favor of his innocence - under their onslaught, he will only have to surrender.
