"What we have, we do not store, having lost we cry." - This is most often the case in practice. Entering into a personal relationship with a man, women try to show themselves from the best side. Time passes, and now you are yelling at him, "sawing", humiliating him. And look after yourself not the way you used to. However, if, unable to withstand such a metamorphosis, a man leaves for another, you begin to bite your elbows and think about how to get him back.
Instructions
Step 1
Analyze the reasons for the breakup Be honest with yourself when answering the question: what in you could be the reason that a man chose another woman over you? A woman's appearance is very important to a man. It is certainly more pleasant for him to hug a slender and well-groomed doll than an unkempt housewife in a baggy dressing gown. You cannot blame your beloved for this, even if you gave birth to children for him and gave him the best years of your life. This is not a question of your natural beauty. More important is how much you love and value yourself and your man in order to take care of yourself regularly, look neat and attractive. Therefore, to begin with, just look in the mirror. Even more important than appearance is the friendly and trusting relationship between a man and a woman. They leave their mistresses, but not their friends. Perhaps there was no emotional contact between you and your partner, such as when you could sit together, drink tea and talk about what is in the soul of one and the other? Maybe your career, girlfriends, business trips came to the fore? What other needs of a man were not satisfied in your union? Perhaps you did not give him love, respect, affection? Let it not seem unfair to you that the reason for the man's departure should be sought in you, in the end, this is the only thing that you can change.
Step 2
Eliminate these causes as much as possible Start eating right to lose weight, do any sport you like to look fit and youthful. Consider changing your hairstyle and working on your makeup. Your goal is now and always to look well-groomed and attractive.
Step 3
Never Pursue a Man Men do not like women who are too approachable, even if they have already had some kind of relationship. Stand proudly and independently.
Step 4
Recall what your man valued most in you, and develop that quality It could be some kind of purely external sign, for example, your luxurious hair (which now is the time to grow back!) Or some quality of your soul, for example, kindness (for sure, you will find someone you can help, so that he knows about it).
Step 5
Expand your circle of friends Perhaps you will acquire new acquaintances or a new hobby - whatever, as long as it brings you joy and fill your life with pleasure. If your ex suddenly meets you on the street (and how to organize such a meeting - let's say later), and your eyes will shine, this will make a much greater impression on him than if he sees you sad, with a dull look.
Step 6
Through mutual acquaintances, try to find out how his business is with his new lover, where he now works, what he does. Forewarned is forearmed. Possessing information, you will not act blindly. It is important that he does not learn from anyone that you were interested in this.
Step 7
As if by chance, arrange meetings with him at such moments when he can see you laughing cheerfully, joyful, in the company of an interesting man, in a situation of your triumph, when your superiors recognize your merits, etc.
Step 8
Well, in the end, when he asks to return, do not rush to throw yourself on his neck, keep the intrigue at least for a while!
