Cheating is breaking an oath, breaking a promise of loyalty you made to your loved one. Often such mistakes end in a breakup or even a divorce, but it also happens that the love of one of the partners is so strong that he is ready to forgive the offender.
If you decide to try to maintain a relationship with your loved one, first figure out what exactly prompted you to cheat. This must be done in order not to repeat such mistakes in the future. Only after you put everything in its place in your head, start begging for forgiveness.
Try talking to your significant other. For this, choose a place where no one will bother you. Be prepared for the conversation to be difficult and, most likely, even emotional, so it is best to meet where no one can interfere with you. Sometimes it also happens that a devoted person cannot find the strength in himself and see the one who hurt him. In this case, you must do everything to ensure that your conversation still takes place. Wait for your loved one near the house or meet after work and beg to listen to you.
If you still did not manage to arrange a meeting, and your phone calls are not answered, write a letter in which you express all your feelings, emotions and pain that your act caused you. Explain that you regret what happened and do not intend to repeat your mistakes. Tell me how bad it is for you that with your meanness you turned your loved one away from you. Most likely, your significant other will read your letter sincerely and decide to call you back to make an appointment.
Be discreet and sincere during the conversation. Do not lie, no matter what questions they ask you. Remember that only your honesty can somehow tune your lover to a frank conversation.
If you nevertheless managed to beg forgiveness, be prepared for the fact that for a long time all kinds of proofs of your loyalty will be required from you. Cheating destroys trust in a couple, and in order to regain it, you will have to spend a lot of time and effort. Arrange various surprises for your soulmate, take them on dates. Some even decide to share their username and password from social networks to show that they are not hiding anything from their beloved or beloved.
Of course, begging for forgiveness is much easier than restoring the previous warm relationship, but if a person still decides to forgive you, most likely, at every opportunity he will remind you of your infidelity, and you will only have to gather all your strength into a fist and endure for the sake of your happiness and your love.