Among the lonely representatives of the fair sex, there is an opinion that there are almost no real men left. You can wait for years for the arrival of your soul mate, but it is better to start building your own happiness.
Instructions
Step 1
The problem with most single women is that in the process of finding a real man, they try to embrace the immensity. They want him to be the undisputed leader in everything and at the same time fulfill any desire. Men are required to have a good financial situation and at the same time - round-the-clock attention and care. Each woman has her own list of qualities of a real man, but many positions on the list conflict with each other. Therefore, remember that it is almost impossible to meet a person who has a complete list of qualities necessary for an ideal life partner.
Step 2
This does not mean at all that you need to forget about your dream and agree to build a relationship with any first person you meet. It is necessary to filter out the criteria for choosing a real man. Determine for yourself which qualities of a person are the most significant for you and must be present in him, and which ones can be completely abandoned. The more characteristics you consider obligatory in a person, the less men fit this image.
Step 3
Keep in mind that while you are looking for the owner of all the qualities you need, other women, who are not so picky in choosing their man, start a family and reduce your chances to meet your destiny. Therefore, the sooner you get rid of the categoricalness that restricts your choice, the more chances you have of not being alone.
Step 4
Remember that not all qualities that are priority for you should be clearly expressed in a person, some of them may be hidden or absent altogether. The combination of the qualities of diverse people is practically not found in any person. For example, if you decide to connect fate with a man who is seriously busy building his career, do not expect frequent calls and constant attention from him. And do not accuse him of selfishness, such a misunderstanding will lead to a break in relations. If you decide that a real man is someone who achieves a high position, come to terms with his lifestyle.
Step 5
Do not repeat the mistake of many women - do not try to "blind" from a man the one who appeared to you in your dreams. Adults are not capable of radical changes in character, such attempts only irritate a mature man. An attempt at re-education often leads to psychological discomfort for both parties and can lead to a breakdown in the relationship.
