A real man - these words are fanned with an almost mystical aura of attractiveness. Men want to be real. Women want their men to be real. Boys are told, "Grow up to be a real man." But who is a real man? Let's try to figure it out.
Distinctive qualities of a real man
A real man can be characterized by saying that he is well aware of where he is, where he is going and what his goals are. He keeps his physical condition in order, but not to show off, but simply because it serves as an expression of his inner core. He is confident in himself, and those around him note that he has more than enough strength and energy. At the same time, he does not fuss and does not take on meaningless projects, but does what corresponds to his tasks and ideas.
A real man, thanks to his confidence and understanding of himself, is usually very sexy. He does not need to seem like someone, he simply puts into practice what is the basis of his character, he does not seek to look beautiful.
A real man is characterized by harmony with himself and with the outside world in which he dwells.
Women react to such a man in a special way. Even an independent woman, by whom you cannot say that she needs support and support, wants to see a man stronger than herself with her. But the strength of a real man is not that he will try to control or manipulate others. True strength gives birth to gentleness as a style of communication with others. This is a kind person. Only a real man knows how to be truly understanding and caring, since he is able not to dwell on his own problems, but to pay attention to those around him.
How to be a real man
The portrait of such a "super hero" will seem to some to be the only correct masculine image, and to others - an unattainable ideal. In fact, every man has the potential to call himself real. To do this, you need to gain confidence, understand yourself and your goals properly.
A stable internal state inherent in a real man is quite amenable to education and training. It allows you to withstand any external tests.
Inner doubts and experiences are characteristic of every person. Rethinking yourself and constant development is an inalienable property of a real man. You need to have the courage to listen to your inner voice and answer the "alarm bells" in time. If everything is in order in your head, then it will not be a problem for you to figure out what is happening around.
A real man is not one who chases the number of victories, flexing his muscles in front of a mirror in his free time. This is not a "man" who, with his uncouthness, makes others blush. And it doesn't really matter how handsome a man is. This is a person for whom authentic things are more important than ostentatious ones, and quality is more important than quantity.